My Story
Having seen colleagues and friends struggling with tough choices, but then being helped by talking through their situation, has really inspired me to become a coach.
Why Coaching?
Through-out my career I've always enjoyed growing those around me. Mostly through one to one coaching and mentoring, but also setting up the right organisation and providing opportunities. As I found myself with the opportunity to start a new career, coaching came very naturally - which was reinforced by colleagues' and friends' positive reaction to it. By focussing on it deliberately, I can both serve more people and increase my coaching skills to provide real value faster for my clients.
What Informs My Approach
We all make choices in life. From partners, to careers, to where to live - with additional complexity as they influence each other. In my case, I was lucky to meet my partner early in life and that we could talk through and make choices jointly, from living together as students, to prioritising careers and choosing a remote relationship, to then reprioritising living together again, to now my changing career. In all of these choices, I pride myself on having made them very consciously, and through-out my coaching and mentoring I've tried to ensure others also make informed, conscious choices instead of simply jumping on the next thing.
I am also a student of human nature, understanding the biases that may help us and which ones hinders us, how we respond to perceived threats and what we need to feel content. While each situation is unique, there are many models from science, philosophy, and psychology that can help us gain new insights and frameworks to use when we're presented - or confronted - with an opportunity.
My Relationship with Norms
As part of making informed choices, we need to be aware of things that are so natural they're invisible to us. Does the next job really have to mean taking on more responsibility? Is relocation worth the strain on your relationships? Would additional income improve your everyday life? The answer to all of these question may be an emphatic and honest "yes" - the key is to have asked them. Throughout our upbringing and the culture we surround ourselves with (professional and societal), we are given role models and standards of what is best and right. I want you to see those for what they are - optional norms that can you choose, or not, to abide by.